| Take example from our friendship, guys.. |
As I get older I feel that some friendships tend to fade away and most of the time it is the fault of both persons. Reasons for this may include: one person doesn't make as much effort as before and you’re stubborn (like me) so you return the favour, or you grow out of them (and/or vice versa). I personally believe that having a minimal amount of friends lessens the 'drama' that us females just cannot stay away from.
Word of warning though, if you are my age or younger as awful as it sounds, you will probably experience a falling out with a friend and they may show you a side to their personality that you didn't even know existed. If you have, or are experiencing this currently I would advise you to remain calm and talk things over to whoever it may be because friendship is a beautiful thing and to let something petty ruin it is a complete shame. despite this, at the end of the day it is up to both of you (or however many there are) to sort things out. Eventually your problems may blow over BUT you may never talk to that individual again and I think that this can have silver lining in that you will have more time to engage with people who care about you as much as you care about them.
It may be that you feel that your friend is suddenly acting strangely or they are pushing you away. Just understand that if you know that you haven't done anything wrong there is no use in blaming yourself and it may seem unfair at first but you will get through it quite quickly as unnecessary negativity will cause you unnecessary stress. One thing that I have learnt, is that life is temporary and it helps to stay away from those who make you feel lesser than them.
Word of warning though, if you are my age or younger as awful as it sounds, you will probably experience a falling out with a friend and they may show you a side to their personality that you didn't even know existed. If you have, or are experiencing this currently I would advise you to remain calm and talk things over to whoever it may be because friendship is a beautiful thing and to let something petty ruin it is a complete shame. despite this, at the end of the day it is up to both of you (or however many there are) to sort things out. Eventually your problems may blow over BUT you may never talk to that individual again and I think that this can have silver lining in that you will have more time to engage with people who care about you as much as you care about them.
It may be that you feel that your friend is suddenly acting strangely or they are pushing you away. Just understand that if you know that you haven't done anything wrong there is no use in blaming yourself and it may seem unfair at first but you will get through it quite quickly as unnecessary negativity will cause you unnecessary stress. One thing that I have learnt, is that life is temporary and it helps to stay away from those who make you feel lesser than them.
On a lighter note, I would advise you to cherish your friends because often times we forget how much they mean to us and the main thing is to have FUN. As cliché as it sounds friends who laugh together really do stay together and I learnt that only recently. I hope to carry that philosophy with me for the rest of my life.
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